It’s easy to second-guess ourselves when we’re sitting in a vet’s office, overwhelmed, worried, and hoping for answers. We want to do the right thing for our dog, but that little voice in our head — the one nudging us to ask more questions or speak up — can feel so quiet compared to the authority of a white coat.
That feeling is real. It’s often called white coat syndrome, and it can make us forget just how deeply we know our own pets.
But here’s the truth: you do know your dog. You know them better than anyone! You know what’s normal for them, what’s off, and when something doesn’t sit right. You live with them, love them, and care for them every single day. Your intuition? It matters. And it’s okay — more than okay — to trust it.
Let me say it clearly: 📢
You are allowed to ask more questions.
You are allowed to ask for clarification.
You are allowed to get a second opinion.
Advocating for your dog doesn’t mean you’re being difficult. It means you’re being responsible.
Most veterinary professionals truly do want what’s best for our pets. They carry a heavy emotional load, working long hours with so many animals and families counting on them. I have deep respect for that. But just like in human medicine, not every experience will be a good one. Not every recommendation will be the right fit for your dog.
That doesn’t make you less trusting. It makes you careful.
Because while your vet may care for hundreds of pets, I only had one Lily. I have only one Forrest. You only have one Daisy. Or Max. Or Luna. And they only have you.
It’s our job to be their voice — to ask the hard questions, to slow things down when needed, and to make space for both science and intuition and holistic care options. That’s not being dramatic. That’s being a good dog parent.
So the next time something feels off, or you need to pause and gather more info, or you want to advocate for a different approach — do it. Don’t hesitate to speak up for your beloved friend. Ask all the questions you need. Research more. And always trust your gut.
Because no one knows your dog like you do. And no one will fight for them the way you will. 💜
From our lavender world of grace — we’re holding onto hope and walking by faith. 💜
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