• I shared in the last blog post how the last several months have been a rough patch for Forrest. We’ve been navigating a whole new season of adjustments. Back in the spring he started potassium bromide, and between that, medication changes, side effects, liver concerns, bile acid testing, and working through tapering down his phenobarbital, it’s been a lot. So we’ve been adjusting together. There are a lot of moving pieces to this merry-go-round right now, but things are beginning to look up, and for that I am so grateful.

    I don’t look at him and see epilepsy.

    Do I wish he didn’t have it? Of course I do.

    Do I wish he didn’t have to take multiple medications and deal with side effects? Absolutely.

    But when I see him, I see my big, grown puppy dog. My best friend. My shadow. My family. He’s an epilepsy warrior, no doubt. No matter what life throws his way, he always shows up with a joyful attitude. It’s the reason I call him my hero.

    I see the dog that still gets excited over walks. Still wants to sniff every smell. Still wants adventures. Still wants to be included.

    I don’t expect him to do everything exactly like he used to because that wouldn’t be fair to him. We work around what he can do now. We respect his limits. We make adjustments when we need to.

    But I don’t want his world to become small.

    I don’t want his diagnosis to become his whole identity.

    I think sometimes we get caught up in what our epi dogs can’t do anymore and forget to see all the things they still can.

    Forrest can still enjoy life.

    He can still be happy.

    He can still just be a dog.

    It looks different than I thought it would.

    But different doesn’t mean less beautiful.

    It just means learning to walk a different path together.

    If you’re walking this journey too, what has been the hardest adjustment for you — the seizures themselves, the medications and side effects, or learning your “new normal”?

    If you’d like to following Forrest’s day-to-day adventures, updates, and all the little moments in between, you can follow his Facebook page. I share the real side of our journey — the hard days, the good days, and all the wags, walks, and Forrest moments in between. 🐶

    From our lavender world of grace, we’re holding onto hope walking by faith. 💜

  • It’s been a while since I’ve written here, and I wanted to share a little update on what’s been going on with Forrest and why things have been so quiet lately.

    Since November, Forrest’s seizure pattern has gradually been tightening and shifting. What used to feel somewhat predictable has started has become anything but. This is the most challenging season in our epilepsy journey we’ve faced.

    Despite being on Denamarin Advanced to support his liver, Forrest’s most recent bloodwork showed a spike in his ALT levels, which prompted his neurologist to order a bile acids test. Unfortunately, the results came back with concerning information suggesting that Forrest has developed a form of liver disease.

    Right now we don’t know exactly what type. He is scheduled for an abdominal ultrasound this Thursday, which should give us more answers.

    His neurologist believes this could be medication-induced liver disease from phenobarbital, which can sometimes be reversible, provided he can safely taper down the dose. The plan moving forward is to transition him onto potassium bromide. If he tolerates it well and it controls his seizures, we will begin a very careful taper off phenobarbital to give his liver a chance to recover.

    He is scheduled to begin a potassium bromide loading dose this Saturday, unless the ultrasound reveals something that changes our course.

    As you can probably imagine, this has been a heavy and exhausting season. I simply haven’t had the time or emotional space to sit down and write the way I usually do. Right now my main focus is simply caring for Forrest and resting when I can alongside him. Managing epilepsy in dogs often comes in waves, and lately it feels like we’re all but drowning and are in desperate need of a life raft.

    Even though things have been quiet here on the blog, please know that we’re still here.

    If you’d like to follow Forrest’s day-to-day journey, I share much more frequent updates on his social media pages. Click this link to follow Forrest on Facebook. 🐶https://www.facebook.com/forrestakalittledude

    And if you’ve walked this road before, I would truly love to hear from you.

    If you have an epileptic dog and have gone through a difficult season like this, please feel free to share your story in the comments. If your dog has taken potassium bromide, I would especially appreciate hearing about your experience — how your dog tolerated it, and anything you learned along the way.

    Sometimes the most comforting thing during hard seasons is simply knowing we’re not walking them alone.

    Thank you for being here and for continuing to follow Forrest’s journey.

    From our lavender world of grace, we’re holding onto hope, walking by faith. 💜

    • Why We Switched to a Reverse Osmosis System

      One thing I’ve become extra mindful of on this journey with Forrest is what we put into our bodies — and that includes something we use every single day: water.

      For years, we drank tap water filtered through a Brita pitcher with the Elite filters. I assumed we were doing the best we could. The water tasted fine, and I believed that meant it was “clean.”

      What I learned recently surprised me — and honestly changed everything.

      Wake Up Call

      When I entered our zip code into a water quality database, I learned that certain contaminants linked to cancer risk were present at levels up to 35 times higher than health-based recommendations! ☠️ Considering that our pets drink the same water every day — often in greater proportion than we do — that information was impossible for me to ignore.


      What I Learned About Filtered Water

      Brita (and most pitcher filters) do help improve taste and reduce certain contaminants, but they are primarily designed to reduce things like chlorine, odor, and some metals. They do not remove many of the dissolved solids and contaminants that can still be present in municipal water, depending on where you live.

      In other words:
      👉 They make water taste better
      👉 They don’t necessarily make it as pure as we might think

      Most refrigerator water filters are actually very similar in filtration capability to pitcher filters — convenient, yes, but still limited.

      That realization was a turning point for me.


      Why I Chose a Reverse Osmosis (RO) System

      After researching options, we chose an APEC reverse osmosis system — and I truly can’t say enough good things about it.

      Reverse osmosis systems filter water at a much deeper level, removing:

      • Total dissolved solids (TDS)
      • Heavy metals
      • Industrial contaminants
      • Many things pitcher and fridge filters simply don’t catch

      Clean drinking water matters for us, and it matters just as much for our pets, who rely entirely on us for their health.


      The Hidden Cost of Pitcher Filters

      Another thing that finally pushed me over the edge?

      The constant refilling.

      Between:

      • Me
      • Forrest
      • Cooking
      • Making ice

      I was refilling that pitcher constantly. It got old fast.

      And when I added up the cost of replacing the more expensive Elite filters, I realized I was spending quite a bit over time — with limited filtration to show for it. 😣


      Installation Was Easier (and Cheaper) Than I Expected

      I don’t have family or friends nearby who could install mine, so I hired someone and was able to get it installed for $125, which I felt was very reasonable.

      That said, the manufacturer and many reviews state that someone with basic handyman skills can install this system themselves. No professional plumbing license required.

      I also opted for the refrigerator hookup, which means:

      • Our ice is now made with RO water
      • No more refilling ice trays

      The RO system currently supplies our ice maker, and that same line will support a future water-dispensing fridge. 💧


      Testing Our Water (Another Shocker)

      I tested four different water sources: our tap water, water from our Brita pitcher (using the Elite filter), bottled water, and our water after installing the reverse osmosis system.

      What surprised me most was how close the tap water and the Brita-filtered water tested to each other, despite using the more expensive pitcher filter.

      In contrast, the bottled water and the RO-filtered water tested very similarly to each other — and significantly lower than both the tap and pitcher water.

      That was the moment it really clicked for me: improving taste isn’t the same thing as deeply filtering what’s in your water.


      How You Can Learn More About Your Own Water

      Want to learn more about what’s in your drinking water? You don’t have to guess!

      🔗 Check your local water quality by ZIP code:
      👉 EWG Tap Water Database

      This tool also helps recommend filtration options based on your specific area, which I found incredibly helpful.

      🔗 The RO system we chose:
      👉 APEC Water Systems RO-90

      If you’re not ready for an RO system, you can also:

      • Order a water quality meter
      • Use a mail-in water test kit
      • Test your current setup and decide from there

      The EWG website doesn’t just show what’s in your water — it also helps guide you toward filtration options that fit your needs.


      Final Thoughts

      I wish I had done it sooner.

      ✔ Affordable
      ✔ Cleaner water
      ✔ Less daily hassle
      ✔ Better for Forrest
      ✔ Better for me

      APEC’s customer service was top-notch, the system has been flawless, and the peace of mind is priceless.

      Clean drinking water is something we often take for granted — until we learn what’s really in it. And now? I feel better knowing we’re drinking cleaner, safer water — every single day.💧

      Disclaimer

      This post reflects my personal experience and research as a pet parent and consumer. I am not a medical professional, veterinarian, or water quality expert. Water quality varies by location, infrastructure, and testing methods, and what works for one household may not be necessary or appropriate for another. Information shared here is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease in pets or humans.

      Some links in this post may be affiliate links, meaning I may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you. I only share products I personally use and genuinely feel comfortable recommending. I encourage readers to review their local water quality reports and consult appropriate professionals when making decisions related to health, pets, or home systems.

      Have you ever checked what’s in your local drinking water — or thought about how it might impact your pets? I’d love to hear your thoughts or experiences in the comments.

      If this post was helpful, feel free to share it with another pet parent.

      From our lavender world of grace, we’re holding onto love, walking by faith. 🪻

    • If you love a cozy, good-smelling home, you’ve probably wondered the same thing I did:

      Can home fragrance trigger seizures in dogs? 🤷🏼‍♀️

      When my Australian Shepherd, Forrest, started having seizures, I questioned everything in our environment — food, cleaners, lighting, stress, and yes… scents. ❓

      I eliminated home fragrance completely when his seizures first began.
      We went a long time with no wax, no candles — nothing. So this is a road I’ve walked already.

      Over time, through research, observation, and guidance from veterinary professionals, I found a balanced approach that keeps Forrest safe without giving up a home that feels comforting to me.

      If you’re an epi-dog parent, you understand why we try everything to help our precious epi dogs. 💜


      Why scent can matter for seizure-prone dogs

      It’s not simply “fragrance = bad.”

      The real issue is:

      • Airborne concentration
      • Respiratory irritation
      • Nervous system sensitivity
      • Environmental stress load

      Strong airborne chemicals — from essential oils, aerosols, smoke, or heavy fragrance — can irritate the respiratory system and add stress to the body. In a dog with epilepsy, stress or irritation can lower seizure threshold.

      Epilepsy is already present in the brain.
      Environment can influence how stable that system stays.🧠


      Important reality check for epi-dog parents

      If you’ve been on this journey for any length of time, you know this truth:

      We can drive ourselves crazy trying to find “the trigger” that will magically stop seizures.

      Most idiopathic epilepsy does not have a single environmental trigger. It doesn’t mean environmental care isn’t worth doing — it absolutely is. But it also means we eventually have to accept:

      We manage.
      We support.
      We love them.
      And sometimes seizures still happen.

      If you’re in that place — you are not alone. I am with you. 💜


      Certain scent families deserve extra caution

      Veterinary toxicology references caution against these essential oil families for seizure-prone pets due to neurologically active compounds:

      • Eucalyptus
      • Rosemary
      • Peppermint
      • Tea tree
      • Pine / fir
      • Citrus oils
      • Clove
      • Oregano / thyme
      • Lavender

      These often appear in “spa,” “clean linen,” “forest,” “energizing,” or “herbal” scent profiles.

      I simply skip them. 🚫

      A note about essential oils and diffusers

      A gentle word about essential oils in epilepsy communities

      If you’re part of seizure-dog groups, you’ve probably seen the advice to place frankincense or other essential oils under a dog’s nose during a seizure to help them “come out of it.” I completely understand why desperate pet parents reach for anything that sounds hopeful — I’ve been there too. Essential oils are highly concentrated plant compounds, and many contain neurologically active components that can irritate the respiratory system or affect nervous system signaling, especially in seizure-prone dogs. While some holistic practitioners incorporate oils in carefully controlled ways, there is currently no veterinary neurologic evidence that essential oils stop active seizures, and improper use can do more harm than good. If you’re interested in using essential oils, I strongly encourage working with a qualified holistic or integrative veterinarian who can guide safe oil selection, dilution, and proper use.It’s also important to note that essential oils should never replace true seizure rescue medication. Proven rescue options such as intranasal Midazolam or rectal Diazepam are life saving medications specifically designed to safely interrupt an active seizure. Essential oils, even when used under professional holistic guidance, should only ever be considered complementary support — not a substitute for medical seizure protocols. If you’d like to learn more about the difference between rescue medications and long-term seizure management tools, I’ve written a separate post explaining rescue meds versus cluster-busters, which I’ll link here.


      Why I avoid plug-ins, incense, aerosols, and carpet fresheners

      Products I do not use in our home:

      • Plug-in diffusers
      • Incense
      • Aerosol room sprays
      • Carpet powder fresheners
      • Car vent fragrance clips

      These all create continuous or sudden high airborne exposure, which can irritate airways and may lower seizure threshold in sensitive dogs. ❌


      What I do use instead

      Yes — I am a Scentsy consultant.
      Yes — I still love home fragrance.
      But I use it intentionally.

      I choose softer scent families like:

      • Vanilla
      • Bakery scents
      • Coconut
      • Marshmallow
      • Honey
      • Creamy dessert profiles 🧁

      And I follow simple safety habits:

      • No fragrance in closed rooms
      • No overnight warmers
      • Good airflow
      • Forrest can freely leave the room


      Other overlooked airborne risks

      Since we’re talking about inhaled irritants, these matter too:

      • Aerosol hair spray
      • Heavy perfume or cologne
      • Cigarette smoke or vaping

      These create far higher airborne exposure than gently warmed wax and are unquestionably harmful to pets’ respiratory systems as well as other health issues.


      My current experiment

      Fragrance has never appeared to impact Forrest’s seizure pattern. But epilepsy can shift over time, as his recently has, so I’m currently repeating a new fragrance-free trial to see if it makes any difference.

      I’ll share results once I have them.


      You don’t have to give up a cozy home

      If you love a good-smelling home:

      • Choose gentler scent families
      • Avoid aerosols and plug-ins
      • Don’t trap pets in fragranced rooms
      • Use airflow like open windows or an air purifier
      • Observe your dog

      Small changes. Big peace of mind. ☺️


      And if all else fails…

      There’s always one foolproof way to fill your home with fragrance that everyone can agree on:

      Bake cookies. 🍪

      If you’d like to follow Forrest’s epilepsy journey, daily life, and the things we learn along the way, you can find his social links below. We’d love to have you along for the ride. 🐶

      From our lavender world of grace, we’re holding onto love, walking by faith. 💜

      Please consider sharing this blog to help it reach the pet parents who need this information most. 🐾

    • It’s been a little quiet here over the holidays—not for lack of life, just a very full season.

      Christmas was sweet and busy, full of cozy moments, cute sweaters, and time together. I’m sharing some of those moments in the slideshow below because they’re worth remembering. ❤️

      New Year’s Eve came with fireworks, planning, and doing all I could to help Forrest feel safe. Despite our best efforts, he had a seizure on January 3rd at 5:53am. That’s the thing about epilepsy—sometimes you do everything right, and it still shows up.

      This first post for the new year isn’t about big announcements or heavy updates. It’s about taking things as they come, celebrating the quiet wins, and staying present in the in-between moments. And sharing some of those precious moments with you. 🐶

      If you want to keep up with Forrest’s day-to-day life, I share most often on his Facebook page, with photos, videos and little updates in real time. You can also find him on TikTok and Instagram—all linked here on the blog.

      Thank you for being here, for caring about him, and for walking this journey with us.

      From our lavender world of grace, we’re holding onto hope, walking by faith. 💜

      What did the holidays look like in your world this year? Share with us in the comments. We’d love to hear.